View Single Post
Old 09-27-2009, 09:09 AM   #7 (permalink)
vegibean
Member
 
vegibean's Avatar
 

Join Date: Aug 2008
Location: SE and then South some more
Posts: 1,872
Quote:
Originally Posted by anvilhead View Post
BLK, this isn't directed AT you but what is with this NEED to SUPPORT THEM ANYWAY YOU CAN?????? IMHO it's the first codependent red flag......aka he NEEDS my help, he NEEDS my support, i have the power to screw up HIS recovery.

ok, sorry for the rant. how about just let the guy do his thing and don't buy him any bottles of Absolut? go slow, dont' rush anything, live YOUR own life first, and give EACH of you room to breathe.
Amen Anvil.
__________________
If you think you can or cannot, you are right.

Sober Since October 17, 2007
vegibean is offline   Reply With Quote
 

1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 26 27 28 29 30 31 32 33 34 35 36 37 38 39 40 41 42 43 44 45 46 47 48 49 50 51 52 53 54 55 56 57 58 59 60 61 62 63 64 65 66 67 68 69 70 71 72 73 74 75 76 77 78 79 80 81 82 83 84 85 86 87 88 89 90 91 92 93 94 95 96 97 98 99 100 101 102 103 104 105 106 107 108 109 110 111 112