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I don't think there is anything wrong with your longings, and I think trying to suppress it will only make things worse. It seems like your head is in the right place - you know you're not emotionally ready, so stick with that. Something that helped me in the relationship area was to make a list of what I wanted in a partner, and check the qualities that I still need to develop in myself. For example, I want a guy with a healthy self-esteem. Well, I need to get there myself, because if I have a low self-esteem, all I'm going to attract are guys with low self-esteem. While you're developing into the person you need to be to attract the kind of partner you want to be with, there ain't nuthin' wrong with taking matters into your own hands (wink, wink) to get over the urge and move on to what you have to do for the day!
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