Thanks Ro. No, you're right. It's not something I have to decide today. But it lingers in my mind and I know that it's messing up my peace. The fact of the matter is that the flexibility is huge. My two little girls are only 9 and 10 years old. They are very dependent upon me being there for them when I have them. And my son, who is 13, also comes and stays with me for those 6 days every other week is, well, let's be frank, a foul mouthed bad example for the little ones. He is a 13 year old boy, afterall. He hasn't much concern for being responsible. In that light, I feel the need to be here and not leave the little ones at his mercy. LOL
Here's Sarah and Bethy.