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Thank you....
Im a ACoH and Co-dependent and my fiance is an Alcoholic and Codependent...
Yes we both have our issues and we both work hard on our recovery... today we have a balance but there is always the chance.... One thing I can say though.
I will not ever again be in a "relationship" with an active user... Alcoholic and abusive Co-dependent. I choose my fiance because we are realistic, focused and have a depth in our relationship that Im sure I would be hard pressed to find anywhere else... if it could ever happen. We are very good together but it is not always easy. For us it works.... but I would not be in this relaitonship if I were in it alone.... and that is what you have with someone in denial and active addiction.
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Cynay
"Never be bullied into silence. Never allow yourself to be made a victim. Accept no one's definition of your life; define yourself."
Harvey Fierstein
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