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HisHarleyHoney · 09-18-2009, 05:49 AM

thanks for the welcome nandm - I'm slowly but surely making my way around here and I've posted over in that section as well.

I have good days and bad, as everyone does. But I'm finding all the info here very helpful and I've always been one to do my best to focus on the positive rather than negative. Glass half full instead of half empty type here. Just some days it's hard to keep that outlook.

Another thing that I hadn't put in my first post {mainly because I felt I was rambling on a bit} was that it really bothers me how my husband's daughter has treated us - me in particular. He has an estranged relationship with her. Especially now - she said and did a lot of horrible things a year ago. And it just wasn't her but her mother and 1/2 brother. But now, my husband's one sister that he lived with before moving up here to be with me has now made contact with us again after almost 3 yrs. She didn't want him to move up here. And she, also had done somethings to try to destroy our relationship. She calls him and lays all her problems/drama on him. And just over labor day she wanted him to come down to Alabama to straight out her problems - which if he had - 1. he wouldn't have gone without me and 2. he probably would have ended up in jail. She has called once since labor day and was in tears over her daughter - this one lives in OK with her father. Another long complicated story but it frustrates my husband because he said I don't know what she wants me to do. I told him that she just wanted to talk to her big brother. But, also, she has now joined facebook - she added both of us as friends - but it looks like she is now going thru all of my friends and adding them - I just don't trust her. She's never tried to get to know me or wanted anything to do with me. Unlike my other sister-in-law that lives in SC. I've told my husband about it - then he asked if she had asked any of his friends on facebook - which is his adoptive family {he was adpoted by a family when he was 12/13 years old}. She hasn't ..... yet. Just seems to be focusing on me.

So right now we're just seeing what she's doing before we have a knee-gut reaction.

We just want to live drama free but seems like we can't get away from it... *rolls my eyes*

09-18-2009, 05:49 AM	#3 (permalink)
HisHarleyHoney his sweetheart Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: central ohio Posts: 12	thanks for the welcome nandm - I'm slowly but surely making my way around here and I've posted over in that section as well. I have good days and bad, as everyone does. But I'm finding all the info here very helpful and I've always been one to do my best to focus on the positive rather than negative. Glass half full instead of half empty type here. Just some days it's hard to keep that outlook. Another thing that I hadn't put in my first post {mainly because I felt I was rambling on a bit} was that it really bothers me how my husband's daughter has treated us - me in particular. He has an estranged relationship with her. Especially now - she said and did a lot of horrible things a year ago. And it just wasn't her but her mother and 1/2 brother. But now, my husband's one sister that he lived with before moving up here to be with me has now made contact with us again after almost 3 yrs. She didn't want him to move up here. And she, also had done somethings to try to destroy our relationship. She calls him and lays all her problems/drama on him. And just over labor day she wanted him to come down to Alabama to straight out her problems - which if he had - 1. he wouldn't have gone without me and 2. he probably would have ended up in jail. She has called once since labor day and was in tears over her daughter - this one lives in OK with her father. Another long complicated story but it frustrates my husband because he said I don't know what she wants me to do. I told him that she just wanted to talk to her big brother. But, also, she has now joined facebook - she added both of us as friends - but it looks like she is now going thru all of my friends and adding them - I just don't trust her. She's never tried to get to know me or wanted anything to do with me. Unlike my other sister-in-law that lives in SC. I've told my husband about it - then he asked if she had asked any of his friends on facebook - which is his adoptive family {he was adpoted by a family when he was 12/13 years old}. She hasn't ..... yet. Just seems to be focusing on me. So right now we're just seeing what she's doing before we have a knee-gut reaction. We just want to live drama free but seems like we can't get away from it... rolls my eyes