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Preta... that is the feeling I get in this situation, as well. It's almost as if he (the sponsor) is jealous that there is an equally as supportive person in his life. It's rather odd, but I always stay quiet... on the sidelines... My other half? (I really do not know what to refer to him as, these days) is sober for the first time since he was 14/15 years old and he is 32. It is all very confusing to him and I don't say anything as I don't believe he needs to have more on him than he already does. Additionally... I don't really have the time to spend on it... I barely have the time to write this paragraph. I simply feel sorry for him... as I know how much he loves me and I/him... but he is an adult and HAS to start making his own decisions. Although, I'm not quite sure if this was, exactly, his decision...
Tis life. No guarantees.
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