[Cynay]

If all your seeking is really just the opportunity to include "girls" into your circle of friendships ... I dont understans why meeting them at meetings would be an issue. Seeking out people to have "relationships" is what is frowned upon.... developing your social circle and networking with others in the program is not at all.

I have developed a couple "friendships" with men in my meetings. I have not had the need or desire to reach out to them after the meetings except in a group social setting... but If I needed a male point of view I would sure call on them.

The best relationships start out as friendships, if your interested in getting to know more women... then I would suggest maybe taking some classes that are not on the internet.... and start some study groups. Get out socially in clubs that your interested in.... maybe an art class or something.... then you can meet people that are like minded. You might be able to figure out your preference just by developing some friendships with women.

You also might discover you dont have a preference and that just looking for what is right for you. Man or Women.... Maybe this is all about figuring out who "you" are.