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In my experience, AA meetings are a place for people to come and talk about the solution, as laid out in the Big Book, and found in the twelve steps. Its a simple program for complicated people, which is why we have meetings, and sponsors. I know if I tried to work the steps by myself, my big ego would get in the way and I would get it all twisted. Thats a fact! Debs, and any other newcomers who are willing and who are reading this: Check out the sobriety dates of people when they post. If someone hasnt been sober three months and are trashing AA, maybe their advice isnt the best to be taking. Stick with the winners for sure. The winners are also a diverse bunch. Theres the crusty oldtimer whos gonna use the tough love approach, theres the cultish people (yuck), there just normal everyday people of all ages, creeds and lifestyles. The thing they have in common is, they've worked the program with a sponsor, and as a 12th step, they need to carry the message to the next suffering alcoholic. I dont do it "so i can stay sober", tho thats a pretty neat side effect. Its just what any human being whos been down there, and then experienced spiritual fitness, would do.