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Love22
I just read the post that you wote on the 9th....
I know that you say you are not co-dependent but perhaps you might take a closer look at why you want this relationship so much. I do understand deeply loving an Alcoholic, but I hear alot of red flags in your post, especially about the cheating...
It sounds like you have been on and off for most of the time, you could always check out some al-anon meetings and get some ideas. You know if it was ment to be, it will be there in a year.... and it would not harm anyone to take that time to let him work on himself and for you to get a good understanding of what living with an alcoholic is about... because even if he remains sober, he will always be an alcoholic.
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Cynay
"Never be bullied into silence. Never allow yourself to be made a victim. Accept no one's definition of your life; define yourself."
Harvey Fierstein
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