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Wow, thanks for this. This shed some light on my past relationship, esp. the point about making the other person feel guilty for not being more committed. This was EXACTLY what happened with my relationship. He was saying I wasn't committed even though my actions and words indicated so, unless something he did made me doubt that. When I started to see patterns of control and disrespectful behavior, I began to back away and this is when he really escalated the "you're not committed to me." It was such a strange situation because I felt I was giving my all and yet he wasn't seeing it. Never had this happen before.
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