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Nope, not just you hun and it made perfect sense.
I've been having a peruse about this (there's a big word, tee hee).
Needy people are my trigger people. I seem to have this great big beacon flashing above my head - "Come dump all your emotional cr*p here". And when my knees are buckling under the weight, I don't say no more, I say hang on, let me make some more room, there you go, now tell me everything"
Yep, a good, old unhealthy codependent, that was me because, guess what, i'm learning to make changes, I'm learning to say NOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!
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