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freya · 08-30-2009, 06:28 PM

OK I googled CoDA's 12 Steps and see they are basically the same as any other 12 Step Program, so:

Sounds to me like, at this moment, you are on Step 2 (Came to believe that a power greater than ourselves could restore us to sanity.) with this issue -- Instead of calling your exes for "help," how about calling on your HP????....or at least some CoDA friends????

And, just in general, where are you in your Stepwork? Have you done a fearless and thorough 4th Step around this? Have you shared it with your sponsor?

If you are indeed in full relapse mode, then you need to go back to basics fast and hard.

freya

08-30-2009, 06:28 PM	#3 (permalink)
freya Member Join Date: May 2004 Location: Upstate New York Posts: 1,547	OK I googled CoDA's 12 Steps and see they are basically the same as any other 12 Step Program, so: Sounds to me like, at this moment, you are on Step 2 (Came to believe that a power greater than ourselves could restore us to sanity.) with this issue -- Instead of calling your exes for "help," how about calling on your HP????....or at least some CoDA friends???? And, just in general, where are you in your Stepwork? Have you done a fearless and thorough 4th Step around this? Have you shared it with your sponsor? If you are indeed in full relapse mode, then you need to go back to basics fast and hard. freya __________________ *Working the Steps isn't about me acquiring power; working the Steps is about removing the things that block me from being a channel for God's Power.*