[dothi]

Originally Posted by worthyoflove

I'm really not sure how to begin or what to write. Just list how I have hurt others? Or, how I think I have hurt others?

Imagine what a healthy exercise this is for alcoholics, who tend to be "oblivious" to the harm they cause others. If I understand it right, this step helps us become more self-aware, especially as we've often learned unhealthy behaviors from our A-parents. It's those unhealthy behaviors that help perpetuate the cycle from one generation to the next, in spite of our best intentions.