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Thank you Bamboozle and Rancorous. I know you're both right but it is easier said than done when someone has just changed completely overnight. I am not divorced and have no children. He was separated from the mother of his two children a year before we met. He always raved about the fact I came without baggage and said he wouldn't have looked twice at me if I'd had a child as he'd done such a bad thing sticking around for his own two (until I got through to him - now he still sees them as far as I know) and last night I took a call from his landlord saying he wasn't paying towards any bills in his house but had taken six loads of washing - all belonging to his current girlfriend - a mother of four - and it was her kids' clothes. I just don't understand how someone can completely change. And yes I probably will drive myself crazy which is where Al Anon and AA counselling is coming in as I feel it's the only way something will get through to me as I just cannot make sense of it on my own. And I know I shouldn't even try but I can't let it go.
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