[SerenityGirl]

((Kwhims)) I am not sure what to say, but I know I need to learn to accept help from others and not feel I have to do anythings in return, but to be very thankful for their help, I also try to be there for others if they need my help. I have to be careful of my motives, because I am a people pleaser. I have done things for others to feel good about myself, to get my self-worth. But that is not the right reason to do things for others. So I am still learning myself, and starting to understand my codie-ways and what I need to change about myself. In the meantime, I like what you said about focusing on the good things about ourselves....