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Oh man, I feel stuck with my therapist too! I like where you say that you've gotten as much out of it as you can, and the rest is up to you. I only spend like 1% of my time in my therapist's office, so everything else is on me.
My therapist started out doing CBT with me. It's very goal-oriented therapy, and it sounds as though you've got some clear ideas about what you'd like to accomplish. A therapist can operate like a life coach or something, helping you to spell things out and take steps to get where you want to be.
That's kinda my problem. I don't have any solid goals right now. I'm pretty cool where I'm at, but like you, I enjoy our sessions. Essentially, I have a very limited relationship where I call the shots. I get to just take; I'm not required to give anything back except money. That's a sweet deal, if you ask me.
This is probably a trite suggestion, but are there things around you that aren't explicitly lesbian, but that would likely attract lesbians? Softball league comes to mind...lol.
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