[MCake]

Hi, Spittake.. IMHO The people who post here are very open-minded, I hope you'll experience this yourself... no need to be embarrassed

I think I know what you're saying... though I haven't experienced it myself... A friend of mine is sexually attracted to men, yet he's completely unable to build intimate connections with them - and he's always "in love" with one girl or another..

Sometimes I've become romantically fascinated by certain women, but I've never been sexually attracted to any of them. I'm very capable of bonding with men, though, either as friends or intimately... and I tend to prefer the company of men, to the point of (jokingly) being called sexist and chauvinist by my girl-friends. That's inaccurate, though. I absolutely love women... just not in *that* way

Anyway, I'm rambling as usual. I hope you can find more accurate answers... Welcome to GLBT