Hey Congratulations on your 75 days! I agree with Cynay--focus on you and your sobriety and if you two are meant to be together...well, you will be!
I do not have a boyfriend or a hubby right now and I'm very thankful for that. I've been told not to get in to any serious relationship for the first year of sobriety and I think that's a good idea. I've been sober 126 days and can see how very different I am in this short period of time. So, who knows what I'll be like at 365 days sober. Maybe then I will have more to offer someone. Maybe then, I'll know better what I really want. That's what I'm hoping for anyway.
Take care of yourself and remember "Keep Comin' Back...It works if you work it!"