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People that are clingy scare me too and the ones that say they do it because "I Loooovvvveeee You" make me want to put on my running shoes....
I once dated a man like that .... when I started to gently pull away from him he did the most crazy things.... One night I woke up to find him standing over my bed looking at me.... I FREAKED.... but before I got blunt enough and it ended he has stalked me by bugging my computer and reading EVERYTHING I typed.... and my daughter typed. Im talking things you only tell your mother ..... or lover.
*shivers* my heart still pounds when I think of that time..... today I pay much more attention to what is really happening and I try not to look at it though codie eyes and make excuses for the behavior. I have had to work hard on being most respectful to my feelings and taking action before it gets to a harmful place for either of us.
Always remember to be true to yourself...... first.
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Cynay
"Never be bullied into silence. Never allow yourself to be made a victim. Accept no one's definition of your life; define yourself."
Harvey Fierstein
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