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I will share my experience as well.
Al Anon is full of people with all different attitudes, experiences and objectives. But, NOTHING I have read in any of the official Al Anon literature is about "blaming the alcoholic."
In Al Anon, we are asked to work the 12 Steps as well. We are asked to examine and focus on our own issues and not be so focused on the alcoholic. There is a key phrase in Al Anon, "You didn't create it (your loved one's alcoholism), you can't control it (meaning the disease), and you can't cure it (only the alcoholic can cure him or herself).
HTH
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