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Originally Posted by baldjim  i'm trying to help three people through their grief and its bloody exhausting and very painful,tomorrow as they say is another day maybe i can pull myself together and sort myself out |
I love helping other people Jim, that's a huge part of my recovery, without that aspect to my life I'd be looking for excuses to drink. But I know that the first person I have to help is
myself. If I'm not healthy, then I'm not in any condition to be helping others.
Tomorrow is another day for them too. I hope you'll take a little time for yourself to search for some peace and serenity.
When I'm alone, and when I'm grieving, that's when I seek support from the fellowship of AA. I try to open up and let them love me unconditionally, until my batteries are recharged and I can help myself, as well as reach out to others.