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So even if I think that she's causing more harm than good (she's making it okay for him to put blame everywhere else for his drinking) I should say nothing? That seems so un-familiar to me but if that's the "healthy" way to deal with him right now then I guess that's what I have to do. I just think that's going to be one way, fast track ticket to my leaving. The last thing he needs right now is someone to give him more excuses for his drinking and I'm not convinced he sees that that's what is happening. I guess I'm trying to be in control and I can't be huh? You're right- time to focus on me.
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