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Originally Posted by rmm I don't want to start a huge fight by telling him that this woman who he is comfortable seeing seems useless to me, but I guess I should because in my estimation, what she's doing is validating his thought process that his drinking isn't problematic at all and that now that he's stopped actively drinking, the root of every other problem is me. |
If he is comfortable seeing her and feels she is helping him, it is not your place to tell him anything.
That is why I say finding a counselor of your own, who you are comfortable seeing, who can help YOU, would probably be best. For you.
Did I mention--YOU?
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