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I went at my husband's request last week for the first time. He thought it would be him talking to her about his drinking/family issues (his growing up family) and I'd listen and observe and she had in her mind that it would be marriage counseling and said quite clearly that she didn't think our marital issues were related to his drinking. I don't want to start a huge fight by telling him that this woman who he is comfortable seeing seems useless to me, but I guess I should because in my estimation, what she's doing is validating his thought process that his drinking isn't problematic at all and that now that he's stopped actively drinking, the root of every other problem is me.
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