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Cleaning his apartment is a nice gesture and is appropriate when the motive is to help someone in need, but it will never take the place of sitting him down and coming clean about using him for you own selfish means. IMO that's what needs to be done here. If you have a sponsor it might be good to take him along with you when you make your amend. Sitting with him will some humility, which isn't always the most comfortable situation to be in, however my understanding of humility is to acknowledge the truth. You know what the truth is and now it's time for him to find out what the truth is.
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