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Do you have a sponsor who you can talk this over with?

While I have not made many amends, I did go through my list with my sponsor to determine the best way to approach each person.

In general, I am to approach the person, explain why I'm doing what I'm doing, sincerely apologize, and ask if there is any way I can make it up to him/her. It is critical to listen to what the other person has to say.

Have you asked your friend what you can do? From your post, spending time with someone you don't get along with does not seem like an appropriate amend.

Hopefully, others with more experience with amends will reply to your post.

Take care.