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Originally Posted by Gypsy Feet  sweets, as I go through this, I constant remind myself "Their problem, not mine". I first had to accept that rather than that being selfish, it was empowering for them. Rather than believe that I know whats best for someone, I will trust them to live their own best life. So now when I say "Their problem not mine", I can be instantly absolved of trying to control an outcome, or "fix" someone, and guiding my own life is so much easier when it's the only life I am trying to run=) |
"Their problem not mine", now that's something I am not used to saying (in relationships, especially)...I like that.
Thanks Gypsy
