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Old 07-06-2009, 03:03 PM   #51 (permalink)
Sweets79
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Originally Posted by grateful2b View Post
Sweets, it took me getting real fed up with banging my head against the wall for me to finally accept that no matter what I did or wanted to do to control someone or something outside my hula hoop, it was futile. I WAS powerless and when I gave in, that is when I could see how powerless I really was. the, finally letting go of that, was an unexpected relief.

Hi grateful,

I guess I am still in that middle zone, where I know I can't control things, but find it hard to accept. I'm hoping with time, and reading, and learning, plus talking to all you wonderful ladies on here, I will be able to move forward and change.

It is truly difficult because when you are used to thinking a certain way for so long, it seems almost impossible to change it. I know I know it can be done though. I will keep posting and reading

Thanks again!
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