[Thami]

Hi All.

After i came out of rehab my fiance was very supportive and she made sure that she was there for me throughout. But of late i am having problems with her, she has become inconsiderate and very demanding. There is nothing i seem to be doing right in her eyes.
Whatever good i try and do, does not seem enough, and she does not allow me to be myself in our relationship.

This is the exact same reason that my previous relationships fell apart, bcos i was not allowed to be myself and to have my own feelings. Everything revolves around her, whatever feels right to her, then it has to be right for me.

I find myself sacrificing and compromising but i am not getting the same from her. To highlight my sacrifices, I accompanied her to a family party (against my will) and the people there were drinking and drugging, as a result I freaked out and almost relapsed. I have been speaking to her about the way i am feeling about her lack of consideration for others to no avail.

i am getting to a point where i am now questioning the relationship despite the fact that I love to her to bits... but I have to put my recovery first....
I don't want to lose her but it seems like the inevitable at the moment....

Any advise or tips would be greatly appreciated....