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cassandra2,
I can't even begin to say how I know what you feel. I just found out 3 days ago my husband has been abusing oxys for over a year. Our money is gone, our credit is ruined along with my sanity. Appearantly it was a high he could get that I didn't catch on to to replace the drinking that I asked him to quit. Besides the typical feelings - hurt, shame, guilt, yadayada...ANGER is the biggest, hardest to let go of. HOW could he do this to our family? HOW could he choose the drugs over us? But, it's not about us to them, it never was. The best piece of advice I read today was to try and find out what is best for ME and my daughter - what is our happiness and work towards that rather than be angry at what HE did. It is a waste of my energy and Lord only knows I have wasted enough energy on everyone other than ME....
Hang in there
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