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Please please know that IF he starts drinking again that that in NO WAY is a reflection of his love for you, anything about you or anything about your relationship. Sometimes it takes an addict several times of trial and error before the light goes on.
Detach yourself from that idea quickly and it will be so much easier on yourself. Its hard when the addict in your life professes their undying love for you or the promise that FOR YOU they will change when in reality they just cant change for anyone but themselves.
Please learn that lesson quickly you will be so much better off if you COMPLETELY understand that you didnt cause it, you cant cure it and you cant change it......
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"People spend a lifetime searching for happiness; looking for peace. They chase idle dreams, addictions, religions, even other people, hoping to fill the emptiness that plagues them. The irony is the only place they ever needed to search was within."
Romana L. Anderson
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