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Thanks for the feedback.
I have the book, Co-dependant no more...
Couldn't leave it out in the open....haven't finished it.
A friend of mine recommended anger management years ago for AH...but it was what she said about it that made me think about taking it myself recently.
Maybe it is only as good as the person/people running that particular course in that location.
I forgot to mention last night that he threw everything away that has Harley Davidson on it.....didn't give them away....Threw them away.
I guess if I lost a Harley, I wouldn't want to see a reminder everywhere either.
His mom was thinking it meant suicide and I said I thought that was when people gave things away to other people...not threw them in the trash.
(I have it all bagged up and stored. He hasn't asked about the stuff when he saw it wasn't in the trash anymore.)
He crawled into a black hole of depression when he lost his job in 2001 over a technicality. (Alcohol not a factor)
My AH is also on meds for high blood pressure and type 2 diabetes.
With insurance the 6 meds a day that he takes cost over $350. a month.
I can't have him out there with no money for meds.
He has ZERO income.
I can set up a credit balance at our pharmacy so he could go pick them up himself.
About 1/4 of his truck is financed. I pay that bill....so yes, I pay for the diesel, too.
I can't be the one who physically leaves where we live.
It is my house from my divorce from ex in 1984 - clear title in my name only.
"Separate property" in Texas.
Muddies things up a bit...no ?
Gotta go....thank you.....back later.
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