[evmdimples]

As a recovering codep, I'm finally starting to recognize that there are in fact some people that I don't want in my life anymore. I'm wondering how to break away from those friendships? I've never broken up with anybody, lover or friend (no doubt my codep stuff) and so I have no experience doing this. I myself have been on the receiving end of the brutal/dramatic break up (I don't want you in my life anymore. Period.) and the less dramatic break up (I never hear from them again.)

Now that I'm beginning to take control of my own life, I need tools for this new phase. I'm not sure which approach to take, and maybe there's something better than what I've described. Just wanting to know how others have successfully handled this situation.

Thanks!