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Originally Posted by Trying2survive  This will be my 3rd "4th" without my AH! Such a relief not to have to deal with him and all the junk! |
This is my third w/o axw as well.
"I" would ruin all the holidays every year because "my" anxiety level about the no-holds-barred-drunkfests would always overwhelm me and every time I would attempt to control what, I now know, was impossibly out of my control. I was insane.
I had residual anxiety every holiday even after after our split for a couple of years. Friday I was at a meeting and it occurred to me I had "zero" anxiety.....finally. Yea for us! It really does give an added meaning to "Independence Day".
Thanks and God bless us all,
Coyote