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Startingover2 · 07-03-2009, 07:52 AM

I was told I was too negative. Who wouldn't be negative given the situation? Even when I tried to be positive and happy he still accused me of being negative.

I agree this isn't about you...its about him. He is trying to blameshift it all on you.

I know how your heart hurts for your baby. I have a small child too and she hasn't had her parents together since she was 4 months old. It sucks. I cry for her everyday, but I do believe this is better than the dysfunction she would have seen if I stayed with exah. I am going to do my best to never let her see his drinking.

I guess I am 0 for 2 as well and I do think about that. But you will never have a chance to be 1 for 2 if you don't change anything.

07-03-2009, 07:52 AM	#5 (permalink)
Startingover2 Member Join Date: Oct 2007 Posts: 534	I was told I was too negative. Who wouldn't be negative given the situation? Even when I tried to be positive and happy he still accused me of being negative. I agree this isn't about you...its about him. He is trying to blameshift it all on you. I know how your heart hurts for your baby. I have a small child too and she hasn't had her parents together since she was 4 months old. It sucks. I cry for her everyday, but I do believe this is better than the dysfunction she would have seen if I stayed with exah. I am going to do my best to never let her see his drinking. I guess I am 0 for 2 as well and I do think about that. But you will never have a chance to be 1 for 2 if you don't change anything.