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Old 06-30-2009, 10:17 AM   #5 (permalink)
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My moment of clarity (after my last bender) was finally accepting that I'm an alcoholic and that I needed help.

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We're often conflicted by our own sense of achievements. We feel that we can conquer any obstacle. We can be very stubborn with this
I can fully relate to this statement. For too many years, "conquer any obstacle" meant that I must learn to control alcohol. I had accomplished so much in other areas of my life - why can't I learn to master alcohol?

Later, "conquer any obstacle" meant that I could quit drinking without any help. Many failed efforts later, I finally had to accept that I could not quit on my own.

I'm sure that the pride & ego comes through loud & clear. One of the most painful lessons I learned - I had to be humbled (through repeated failures) and cut down to size.


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Where am I at today? I accept my alcoholism & I know that I will fully recover. I don't feel hopeless anymore! Recovery from alcoholism is an amazing journey!
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