[Wolfchild]

i always go to a home group member after the meeting if something seems amiss in a meeting. Granted, many people in our area have gotten so used to me, that they are willing to discuss any matter one on one with me. They have come to understand that i am either trying to learn something or i'm indentifying something that could help carry a clear message of hope. Waiting till afterward not only preserves the atmosphere of recovery at a meeting, it allow us the freedom to help each other in case of a simple misunderstanding. Ultimatly, it's up to the group's conscious to do anything about anything. i believe that i should not identify what i see as a problem unless i am willing to also be part of the solution. i attend many meetings outside our area and usually don't say anything unless i notice a continuing pattern of something awry. Then, i usually just ask a couple people after the meeting, in a nonchalant way about the situation. Helps me to avoid looking the fool in case i'm a little too tightly wound at that time!

i appreciate your passion about maintaining your recovery and
your willingness to take action. Keep the faith Missybuns!!