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Old 06-26-2009, 09:09 AM   #4 (permalink)
grateful4me
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Thank you Thank you Thank you, Freya and Bubblegum! After a night at a little league game and a night sleep and my morning workout and praying and giving it to God. . . I came up with the same resolution that both of you are offering.

I have taken care of him for so long that it seems like the thing to do. . . insanity = doing the same thing hopeing for diffent results! I am gradually changing my old behavior (yes, my counselor and I are working on the Co-Dependency issues I have) but I slip ocassionally. I do need to find a sponsor but I have not clicked with anyone yet (even though I am very outgoing) soon I hope!

I am beginning to take care of myself but still fall for the wanted/unwanted requests of him meaning. . .he enables me and my co-dependency. . . I AM WOMAN HEAR ME ROAR!!! Cheers (clinging my bottle of water) to become a STRONG women!

Thank you soooooo much for confirming my thoughts. . . I love this site!
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