| Recovery without outside help....can it happen?
I used to post on the family and friends of A's area but thought I might get some feedback from here too.
My BF and I have been together for 4 years on and off. His alcohol addiction is what broke us up several times. This past episode we were broken up for a year and he decided he would do "whatever it takes" to get back together. I told him that the number one thing is that the drinking would have to STOP! Well, it did, and that was 18 days ago. He is doing very well with it and he says he CAN do this.
My question to you is: Is it possible for him to actually QUIT all together and not be in any type of program, counciling or treatmenmt of any kind? He has amazed me so far because he doesn't show any signs of a dry-drunk, nor has his attitude or personality turned nasty from cravings. I really don't know WHAT to think. I will tell you that I have found a whole new love for this man since he is so determined to feel better now!
Please feel free to give me any and all input from you recovering/recovered A's. I appreciate all responses.
thank you
allison
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