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Sometimes those things feel good to get out. For me, I started feeling better about myself when I started to understand that they were imperfect just like me. Then my letters became, Mom, I know Dad was self absorbed and hard to live with, but thanks for your sacrifice to stay with him as I never had to experience the hardships of being a child of divorce...Dad, I know you were egocentric and self involved but it was those very traits that allowed you to be so successful in your business, so thank you for putting me through college and making it possible for me to be physically not in need for anything, etc.
For me, looking for the positives, just took the negativity out of my life.
Just a thought, but glad you came here to vent.
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