I listen and read about people who can't stop eatting and wish that I were one of those people. My problem is I really hate food and eating. I will put food into my mouth and for the life of me I cant swallow it. As hard as I try I just sit there and chew and chew until I go and spit it out.Right now I am drinking 3 Ensure a day to get something into my system.One of the really SAD things I found out while searching for help with this is that the state of Connecticut does not accept males into there programs. In Hartford they have one of the best places on the eastern coast called THE INSTITUTE OF LIVING ,and I was told directly that because I was a male I did not qualify.We are in the year 2009 right? I guess the only thing thats keeping me from going off on these people is the thought,When they (the general public)talk about Susan B. Anthony (A program for battered woman..and men )they tend to always think of woman.I hope you understand what I mean.All in all ther still should be no difference weather your a man or woman,if you have a problem, you have a problem and there should be some kind of help out there.