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I think that ultimately, it's up to you. I choose to be out everywhere, but I also don't go around waving a flag. My version of 'out' is just not filtering who I am, if I mean to say 'my boyfriend' I say 'my boyfriend.' People in the rooms have mostly been pretty cool. The only times I've made it an explicit point to say "I'm gay" were when I first started working with my sponsor, and when I started working with a temporary sponsee, in case that did inform their decisions. It didn't, although my sponsee's response was pretty funny.
"You don't look gay!"
Sorry, let me get my flag...
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