before I type more I'll say I am not too good with
giving "love" kind of advice. heh
A LOT of people at bars aren't there to get drunk
or even to drink but to socialize.
If I were to meet someone there I'd be checking
them out, hoping I could tell if they were a party
animal or not.
Also...how about just working on developing
friendships w/ these people and let the "love"
stuff stay to the side for now?
At this point in your recovery journey, I reckon
you need more friendship than lovey dovey stuff
or anything that will complicate your life.
btw - have you thought about hanging out at some
coffee houses? If there is a college near you, most
likely there is something like that.
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