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Well I put myself out there but I'm still rejected by almost every guy I like. Just the other day, I told a gorgeous acquaintence of mine that he was very cute and asked if he had a girlfriend (while giving him the look). He freaked out, said yeah he does and said he wasn't gay. It made us both very uncomfortable. I mean, straight people hit on other straight people so why I can't I? One of my friends said that I shouldn't hit on someone until I know for sure they're gay.. but straight people don't ask other straight people before hitting on them-excuse me, are you straight?
Anyway, it just doesn't seem that romantic to me to meet the love of your life at a gay bar or gay event. When you're at a bar, you know what guys are after. Its much more flattering to be hit on in a different setting.
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