freedome,my hats off to you! you are already doing so much i dont think i can suggest anything else! what barb suggested is a good idea! i met my sponsor when she visited one of my regular meetings,,she lives 50 miles away,we are going to her meeting tommorow night in her home town so looking forward to meeting some new folk.where i live in north east scotland there is a lot of women and at a couple of meetings they even out number the men (woo hoo),,anyway,im sure the ladies that do show up occasionaly at your meetings are very grateful for you.i would be.