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Originally Posted by ANGELINA243  Why can't you do inpatient? Just curious. I am not going to give any advice on the BF acting as sobriety police....just don't see how/why that would work. I do think there may be some codepenency issues though...I kinda went through a similar experience years ago. My BF couldn't keep me from drinking. We are no longer together. I kept on drinking until I was ready to quit for me --not anyone else.
Let me ask you this--if he left for another reason.....would you still want to be sober? |
Yup, I sure would. Actually, it was meeting a psycho guy off the Internet and having the cops called by my neighbors that pushed me into rehab - mostly the cops coming to my house and my having zero recollection of it. I hadn't seen my BF for a year before this. I called him at the lowest point in my life (right before the first rehab and right before the second rehab). He came over and we got back together. I am doing this as I don't want to die from alcohol. Thanks for your post and question.