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Nowwhat:
I understand why you feel that way, but telling him that will not only change nothing, it will let him know that he's gotten under your skin...A dream for an alcoholic.
I went through the whole phase of wanting to tell my xabf what an rotten person he was too. I did end up addressing that in my final letter to him, but after that I let it go because I realized I would have been doing nothing more than trying to hurt him as much as he hurt me. In doing that, I would have kept myself in a very unhealthy cycle. Instead, I focused on my self and gained so much more than I could have possibly imagined from that.
If it's the right decision for you, then do it, but think about your motivation for doing it first. Who are you really hurting in the end?
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