I swear, I hear crickets chirping in this thread!
We had a meeting just a couple of weeks ago on this very same subject, and it turned out to be a pretty damned good meeting.
For a long time in my recovery, I didn't apply the steps to my sex life, and I created a lot of pain for myself.
I know when I was actively drinking, booze and sex were intertwined. My first marriage went down the tubes due to my infidelity. When I drank, I couldn't keep my pants up, and I always drank at the nightclubs/bars while hubby was home watching the little one. That tends to ruin a marriage.
Today I've made amends to that man, and I'm grateful we have a good relationship. He's a good man, a 'normie', and surely didn't deserve what I dished out to him.
Today I apply the principles of this program in all areas of my life, including sex.
