I'm a mother of 2 addicts,I had to let go, that was so hard but I knew i had to do it,they both hit there bottom and are now clean and sober,there is so much they haft to learn,now that they are clean,lots of ups and downs,my oldest used for about 7 years,my youngest 10 years.They relapsed many times before the stayed clean
It take time to stay clean ,my youngest was in a recovery house for 1 year before he went on his own my oldest too he is now married with a little girl. So far so good for both
Muf