Welcome to SR.
Al-Anon is a good place for me to learn how to stop dismissing my own needs for the sake of others-especially those who don't care for me or have my best interests at heart. The main person I had to face- that didn't have my best interest at heart was...myself.
I hope that you will continue to read and post in this forum, read the sticky threads and learn the truth about this disease. You aren't alone, we're all here to share our stories and what it took for each of us to find a better way to live.